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Exploding the Self-Esteem Myth
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This article, by Roy F. Baumeister, Jennifer D. Campbell, Joachim I. Krueger and Kathleen D. Vohs, discusses how people are consumed by building their self-worth. "Boosting people's sense of self-worth has become a national preoccupation. Yet surprisingly, researchshows that such efforts are of little value in fostering academic progress or preventing undesirable behavior."
http://www.sciam.com/print_version.cfm?articleID=000CB565-F330-11BE-AD0683414B7F0000

 
In praise of perfectionism
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This article by Stephen A. Diamond discusses how "perfectionism has taken a bum rap. Were it not for perfectionism, we would be in short supply of all those myriad human activities we deem extraordinary, excellent, outstanding or great in quality."
http://talentdevelop.com/InPrPerf.html

 
Perfectionism
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"Perfectionism refers to a set of self-defeating thoughts and behaviors aimed at reaching excessively high and unrealistic goals. Perfectionism is often mistakenly seen in our society as desirable or even necessary for success. However, recent studies have shown that perfectionistic attitudes actually interfere with success. The desire to be perfect can both rob you of a sense of personal satisfaction and cause you to fail to achieve as much as people who have more realistic strivings."
http://www.potsdam.edu/content.php?contentID=7EB90335A0127D15A1DFEF824DE4E2CC

 
Perfectionism and giftedness: Examining the connection
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"The purpose of this paper is to discuss current research regarding the construct of perfectionism, its measurement, its linkage with intellectual giftedness, and strategies for overcoming its negative effects."
http://www.ucalgary.ca/~gifteduc/resources/articles/PerfectionismMP.pdf

 
Perfectionism and the highly gifted child
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Many have asked for suggestions about how to deal with the perfectionism of the highly gifted, and also the depression. In terms of perfectionism, parents have to try to avoid putting pressure on children to be perfect - teachers and schools too ideally, although it may be very difficult to avoid perfectionism within a school environment - or any environment where parents don't have direct control.
http://www.hoagiesgifted.org/perfectionHG.htm

 
Perfectionism: A double-edged sword
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"Perfectionism is like a double-edged sword--it cuts both ways. Perfectionists often don't realize that they are hurting themselves by their own actions. Perfectionism is a duel with oneself, the ultimate "no-win" situation." Read this article for more information about perfectionism
http://utopia.utexas.edu/articles/cmhc/perfect.html?sec=students&sub=none

 
Voices of perfectionism: Perfectionistic gifted adolescents in a rural middle school
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"This study investigated the characteristics of perfectionistic gifted male and female adolescents in a rural middle school, how they perceived their perfectionism, the influences on their perfectionism, and the consequences of their perfectionistic behaviors in the context of their rural middle school experiences."
http://www.gifted.uconn.edu/nrcgt/schuler.html
 
 
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The State University of New York at Buffalo (SUNY) - Preventing Perfectionism Counseling Services
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This program offers self-help matierial, training and advice on the power of failure. "Failure is a teacher and can be the source of much personal growth." Also stressed, is the importance to see failure for what it really is: an opportunity to discover that future success lies in another strategy or direction.
http://ub-counseling.buffalo.edu/stressperfect.shtml
 
 
Printed Materials: Books

 
Being Perfect
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According to the book cover, a few times in your life, someone will tell you something so right, so deeply true that it changes you forever. That is what Anna Quindlen, author of the timeless bestseller A Short Guide to a Happy Life, does here. In Being Perfect, she shares wisdom that, perhaps without knowing it, you have longed to hear: about "the perfection trap," the price you pay when you become ensnared in it, and the key to setting yourself free. Quindlen believes that when your success looks good to the world but doesn't fe...

 
Freeing Our Families from Perfectionism
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"In this groundbreaking book, Tom Greenspon explains perfectionism, where it comes from (including influences outside the family), and what to do about it. He describes a healing process for transforming perfectionism into healthy living practices and self-acceptance. If you think your child may be a perfectionist--if you've ever wondered if you're a perfectionist--this book is for you."
http://www.freespirit.com/catalog/item_detail.cfm?ITEM_ID=82

 
Perfectionism and Gifted Children
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"The perceived natural character of gifted children is to be well behaved, hard working, and studious. Why, then, do so many gifted children have trouble in school? Rosemary Callard-Szulgit, herself a recovering perfectionist, explains how perfectionism can immobilize some children and cause social adjustment problems."
http://www.scarecrowpress.com/Catalog/SingleBook.shtml?command=Search&db=%5EDB/CATALOG.db&eqSKUdata=157886061X

 
Perfectionism: What's Bad about Being too Good?
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This thought-provoking book explains the differences between healthy ambition and unhealthy perfectionism and gives strategies for recognizing the symptoms. Learn how to: Identify what perfectionism can do to your mind and body, Recognize what perfectionism can do to your relationships, Set reasonable standards for yourself, Take positive risks and more. This book can also provide adults insight into how their behavior and expectations can contribute to perfectionism in the teens they parent and teach." "Perfectionism is a problem for many t...

 
What to Do When Good Enough Isn't Good Enough: The Real Deal on Perfectionism
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Perfectionism is an issue many gifted children and adults face. In this book, author Thomas S. Greenspon explains the characteristics of and ideas on how to overcome perfectionism. This guide is tailored especially for preteens and teenagers.
http://www.freespirit.com/catalog/item_detail.cfm?ITEM_ID=549

 
You Know Your Child Is Gifted When...A Beginner's Guide to Life on the Bright Side
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"An entry level book [by Judy Galbraith] for parents of children ages two to eight. Includes characteristics of gifted, descriptions of terms used in gifted education, perfectionism, parenting the gifted child, working with the schools, the rights of parents etc."
http://www.freespirit.com/catalog/item_detail.cfm?ITEM_ID=237
 
 
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5 Steps to Goal Setting Success
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Dr. Jill Ammon-Wexler discusses how to achieve your goals through a five step process. By knowing exactly what your goal is, be willing to pay the "entry fee", focusing on your goal every day, being passionate, and taking consistent action, you can achieve anything.
http://talentdevelop.com/articles/5Steps.html

 
Addiction to Perfection
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Dr. Margaret Paul discusses the individuals need to constantly achieve perfectionism. She identifies the process and addiction to perfectionism and how to control it.
http://talentdevelop.com/articles/ATP.html

 
How Not to Talk to Your Kids
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Po Bronson discusses how parents unknowingly add pressure to their children. Too much encouragement can create fear in trying new things due to the possibility of failure. A new study from the New York public-school system strongly suggests giving kids the label of “smart” does not prevent them from underperforming. It might actually be causing it.
http://talentdevelop.com/articles/HNTTTYK.html

 
    

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